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Eat, Drink and Be Married: In A Perfect World... Vol 1 Issue 7

In a perfect world, according to me...

Today would've started with a good morning kiss and with breakfast pastries in bed...

Later, before heading to work and me off to run errands, we could've shared a mimosa to celebrate today! 

It's the small things... chivalry, a smile, a joke, a few kind words... And then...

In the evening there would've been some fun had at color me mine and later-later we would've had my favorite type of dinner; small, intimate, good food, good wine and laughs -

BUT instead one year later after our engagement, both parties got snarky and rude... So to that point that's what the August 1st Wedding Update is about...

Around our first weeks of being engaged, someone told us that marriage is about wanting to strangle, to death, the person sleeping next to you but not doing so because you'd miss them too much...

And today is one of those days...

This also reminds me of someone's random thought of the day: "Making mistakes is better than faking perfections."

I was really looking forward to writing this post about our engagement BUT I am not mentally there and I'm not good at faking anything!

So on that note...Time for me to go eat away my feelings... Wonk-wonk-wonk...

That is all,

Til Tuesday,

Toodles

On a positive note I know we'll laugh about this later, later, later... And this Sunday we'll be sharing our venue with our lovely parents... So yay-ish!
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