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Procrastinators of Life Unite... Tomorrow...

I have been overwhelmed in the last few weeks with a lot of transitions going on in my life.

And I have been procrastinating a lot in my personal life...
But I have finally decided to cut a few people out of my mind and life-ish...by following the whole "out of sight- out of mind" mentality.

I know what y'all are thinking??? But didn't I say that I didn't have that many friends to begin with... Well this is why... I can't have people that ain't keeping it one hun-ned!

I thought I had made a friend... Who had aligned the same values in relationships- in a sea of singletons I always felt like the odd woman out by being in an relationship-

Long story short- I would rather treasure and nurture genuine jewels that I have harvested over the years than to have a dozen of cubic zirconias surround me... Preach!

And I say procrastinate because I've known for a while that I didn't wanna be friends with these individuals anymore but I hoped that I would change my mind but it hasn't and it might not, ever...

But people are put in your life for a reason... And what I learned is that if someone agrees with everything you have to say and then immediately does the opposite- be wary of their duplicity and "sworn convictions"

And I say Life-ish because I don't believe that you could TOTALLY be done with someone for the rest of your life... Cause when you least expect it, they happen to be on that cal-train alongside you or they send a very unexpected text your way...

That is all,

'Til next Tuesday... JUST KIDDING...'Til Thursday for a MAJOR wedding update...

Toodles
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