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Fatshion 101: Hello 2017!!! Hello adulthood???


Y'all ready for some shocking news!
Happy New Year! I'm all of 31 days late or 3 days late if you celebrate Lunar New Year... Either way I'm late to the celebration party.

We are 11 days into the orange-sexualt-assaulting piece of shit presidency and guess what that "hardworking business mogul" y'all idiots voted for has Already requested time-off and is off vacationing in Palm Beach.

Meanwhile the country is in turmoil but hey who gives a fuck right...
Anywayssss... This post is sort of a new year's resolution about adulting-up inspired by this country's lack of morals.

Five days ago, January 25th, the husband and I celebrated 10 YEARS! of knowing each other (We met on Vinh's first day at SJSU!) This upcoming March we will have been married 2 years, and in May we will be celebrating 10 YEARS TOGETHER!

We began dating at 21 years-old and now at 31 years-old I was like whoa, and then he was like whoa and then we were both like whoa! (Yeah, I just quoted Finding Nemo- Classic)

A picture of me reflecting and packing my last bag
We've been there through our growing pains - from purchasing my car, through college, through getting fired to finally getting a place of our own and purchasing furniture - and y'all know how much fun that can be when the husband thinks neon lights are cool and recliners are stylish. 

It really is a moment of clarity when we both look at each other and realize maybe it's time to do a little more adulting and you wouldn't believe where we decided... At Disneyland!

While on our last Disneyland trip we were debating whether we should renew our annual passports AND dun-dun-dun WE ARE NOT RENEWING.

As much as the decision saddens me (not gonna lie- I cried and just the thought of it - I'm still crying) I know fuck me and my first world problems but that is a part of the reason why we've opted not to renew.

After a lot of reflection about how this orange sexual-assaulting-piece of shit running our country to the ground- I figure it's time I start dedicating more of my free time to social justice.

Until next time my Happiest Place on Earth!
I guess it's also just time to start looking for a bigger place, it's time we start taking our savings seriously and it's time to adult some more.

I've always maintained Disneyland is my happiest place on Earth - it is more affordable than therapy but for the time being - Disneyland will be reserved for "In case of an emergency" only.  

We will be going back to Disneyland for the big celebrations ;-) like Star Wars Land and perhaps the refurbished and reinvented Hollywood Tower of Terror soon to be the Guardians of the Galaxy but the weekend getaways are done for 2017.

So with that said we have packed my bag-back for the last time for a long time. #Tear 

Oh yeah... how could I forget - Outfit deets Cold weather at Disneyland you gotta layer up and wear your most comfortable shoes:

JCrew Striped Sweater: $15! So I got this sweater in tan too! -
AVA and VIV Jeans: $30 - size 14 from Target's Fat Girl Section
FINALLY! A set of purple and white polka-dot Minnie-ears(kids size but hey!I love purple: about $20 (with AP discount) from the Mad Hatter Shop on Main Street - and of course, now all my ears go into retirement... perfect timing...

That is all

'Til next time

Toodles

Lilly Perez-Ngo
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